aiding + abetting, baby. 🥺🔪✨

(restatement § 876(b): knowledge + substantial assistance = congrats, you’re in the group project)

you know
what’s COOLER 🕯️💀
than fraud?
fraud with a helper. 💫

😇🫶

because
aiding and abetting
is literally:
there has to be
an actual tort
in the room.
not vibes.
not “awkward.”
🥰✨

…an underlying wrong.

⚖️ the elements

1) underlying wrong:
somebody’s conduct is wrongful

(torts in the background:
💥concealment,
💥breach of trust,
💥conversion/theft vibes,
💥emotional devastation, etc.)

2) knowledge:
the deputy knows it’s wrong.
or did the classic
“i’m just gonna not look directly at it” exercise. 🙈✨
while actively
building the conditions
that require not knowing.
🐀💫

the count literally frames it as:
actual knowledge or willful blindness
(lol girl just “shut her eyes”). 🧠🫶

3) substantial assistance / encouragement:
🚫 not passive.
🚫 not incidental.
🚫 not “i was merely present.”
active enablement that makes the harm work.💫

more like:
“i made it easier.
faster.
cleaner.
harder to detect.”
🐀💫

but babe!
🗣️ ”what does “substantial assistance” look like ???”

🙂🔫

it can look like:

gatekeeping info so the target stays clueless.
routing communications through the wrong person so control stays concentrated.
administrative power: using role/access to execute changes.
financial support / transfers that keep the bad actor resourced and bold.
off-channel coordination (because compliance systems are such a buzzkill).

and when
the deputy later
deletes/hides channels?
that’s not “self-care.”
omg!

that’s consciousness of wrongdoing vibes.

🧘‍♀️🫥📵


aiding + abetting
is when
the abusive partner
needed an accomplice
and the abettor was like:
“omg yes bestie i love team-work.”

🥺💖⚖️

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

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