Q: how often do men spiral after reading your site?

A: conservatively? most make it about 90 seconds before entering a quiet psychological incident.

symptoms include:
✨sudden “self-reflection”
✨emergency therapy sessions
✨or the classic six-month-later apology DM that starts with “i don’t know why but…”

it’s not personal.
the mirror just hits different.

Q: is this a hate site for men?

A: no. it’s a hate site for lil b*tches, entitlement, gaslighting, ghosting, and the weaponization of incompetence. if that feels personal, ask yourself why.

Q: are you giving legal advice?

A: no. not yet. i’m a law student, not your lawyer. (yet.)
but i am compiling the records.
and babe—
when i say everything’s documented?
i mean the screenshots are gonna be a bloodbath.

draw your own conclusions.
the footnotes will be nasty.

Q: is this site admissible in court?

A: technically? perhaps. spiritually? absolutely.
this is my emotional deposition and nobody’s objecting.

Q: can i still be a feminist if i want a man to pay my bills?

A: yes.
feminism includes autonomy.
and sometimes reparations.

Q: how do i know if he’s the problem or i’m just “too much”?

A: have you ever googled “how to stop being so sensitive” while he was yelling?
cool.

you’re not too much.
he’s a dick.

Q: what if he was sweet in the beginning?

A: so was malware.
it still bricks your system once installed.

Q: what’s the best way to protect myself legally and emotionally?

A: screenshots. timelines. financial records.
a google drive folder labeled “just in case.”

also: repeat after me—
“that doesn’t work for me.”
(if he cringes, you’ve got your answer.)

Q: is it normal to miss someone who hurt me?

A: yes. it’s also normal to crave bagel bites at 2am.
doesn’t mean it’s good for you.

Q: is this site about revenge?

A: no. revenge is loud and disorganized.
this is record-keeping. clarity. narrative power.
the satisfaction is incidental.

Q: how do you stay this unbothered?

A: i’m not. i’m just busy. law school. solo parenting. ghostwriting my enemies' karma in real time.

Q: how do i support a friend going through it?

A: don’t say “anything you need.”
do something.
offer childcare. send dinner. call her lawyer. write the fucking witness statement.

be the woman who makes survival possible.
anything less? performative as hell.

Q: what if he says you’re “doing too much” by documenting all this?

A: that’s interesting.
because no one who benefits from the truth ever says that.

Q: who is this site for, actually?

A: women who were told they were crazy instead of heard.
women who stayed longer because the math didn’t work yet.
women who learned the hard way that love without accountability is just risk exposure.