the people’s princess of plausible deniability 👑🧾

ok.
we’ve been friends since childhood.
🚫 not “met you via DM.”
🚫 not yoga retreat “mutuals.”


childhood.
✨💫

so you knew.

👏🏻 you knew
i was getting punched
while i was nine months pregnant.
👏🏻 you knew
he got on top of me
and tried to manually erase my airway
at like seven months.
👏🏻 you knew
i was the one paying
while he drove my car,
lived in my parents’ house.

🔥🔥🔥

👏🏻 you knew i had a newborn.
👏🏻 you knew and sat through restraining order hearings.
👏🏻 you knew what it costs to survive
that kind of violence —
the kind that leaves you
hypervigilant forever,
like your
whole-ass
nervous system
got drafted into the army
without your fucking consent.

🔥🔥🔥

and then —

you drove me to the airport
when i had to escape my own family.
no safety net.
no backup.
just me,
a twelve-month-old,
and the primal math of
“if i stay, something really bad happens.”

you were there for that.

ok.
so explain this
like i’m stupid
(i’m not):
how do you
go from witness
to missing person.

🔥🔥🔥

because that’s what you did.
❌ you didn’t “get busy.”
❌ you didn’t “need space.”
❌ you didn’t “set boundaries.”

nah.

girlie.
that’s not girl code.
that’s crisis PR for terrible fucking decisions.

🪞🕊️✨

so,
you really
dropped off the face of the planet
the second my life stopped being a fun storyline
you could participate in without consequences.

and then —
👏🏻 clap for her 👏🏻—
the minute
eyewitness accounts
start floating around
that you and my husband
maybe didn’t keep your bodies
in separate fucking spaces…

you don’t
do the normal-innocent-person thing.


😮🙌

nope.
instead you launch
whatever the fuck that was.

💀😘✨

💥 you slander me.
💥 you call me psychotic
💥 you start a behind-the-scenes rebrand into “princess,”
as if this is some kind of
fucked-up
princess diana
royal miscommunication
and not a moral collapse
with knives sticking out of my back.

👑

you don’t deny the act.
you assassinate the character.💥💫
you weaponize pity
like a drunk white girl
on tiktok live.
🥺🙏
fucking classic.


we all know 🙃👉👈 if nothing happened,
your biggest emotion would be annoyance.

🚩 not erratic panic.
🚩 not a private PR campaign.
🚩 not manic surveillance.
🚩 not defensive.
🚩 not launching a reputation counterstrike
with all the finesse of a toddler throwing a fucking fit.

so yeah.

i’m not saying you’re guilty.
but your behavior’s doing a backflip into the yes pile.

so sweetie,
you didn’t disappear
because you didn’t know.
you disappeared because

you did know.

you knew what he did to me.
you knew what i survived.
and you still decided your image
mattered more than my lived-reality.

🚫 that’s not “messy.”
🚫 that’s not “drama.”
🚫 that’s not “ugh, sisterhood is complicated.”

that’s fucking betrayal.

🔥🔥🔥

so yeah —
you can keep your fake-ass crown. 👑
but don’t pretend it
isn’t made of
💥 denial,
💥 projection,
🗣️ and a man who hits women.

…😦

because the truth is:
i didn’t lose my mind.
i lost a friend
who was willing to trade my life
for her fucking optics.

and honestly?

that’s a specific kind of evil.

🥀🧠✨

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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