✶ psa: stop weaponizing your trauma…disability…fucking ptsd 🪦🗣️⚠️ maybe, you’re just being shitty?
hey.
hi.
hello.
…
quick reminder for the people
who want to avoid
the analysis
of their actual conduct and character:
…
🥺 your chronic illness is not a fucking hall pass.
🥺 your ptsd is not a get-out-of-consequences card.
🥺 your trauma is not a coupon code for being a terrible human being.
bro.
cut the fucking theatrics.
✨ yes, trauma impacts behavior.
✨ yes, symptoms are real.
✨ yes, chronic illness is a war.
…
but weaponizing it?
using it to duck accountability?
using it to manipulate people
into thinking you’re chronically THE SAINT?
deploying it as a goddamn deflection
every time you get caught being grimy?
absolutely the fuck not. 🥊
—
💥 “i acted like that because of my trauma”
no babe.
you acted like that because
you’re an adult who made a choice
and you didn’t think anyone would clock you.
trauma explains a pattern,
it does not erase the evidence.
you still have to own that shit.
—
💥 “i have ptsd, i can’t help it”
you can have ptsd and still not:
🙃 lie
🙃 cheat
🙃 stalk
🙃 violate boundaries
🙃 repeatedly hurt people
🙃 rewrite fucking reality
🙃 commit actual crimes
🙃 claim victimhood while doing olympic-level damage
ptsd makes you
hypervigilant,
avoidant,
reactive —
not a professional manipulator
with a narcissistic personality type.
—
💥 “you can’t blame me, i’m sick”
ok?
and?
you’re sick.
you’re not fucking stupid.
…
yo.
🗣️⚠️ chronic illness is not an excuse to:
🔥 treat people like flaming trashcans
🔥 commit moral fucking arson then limp away
🔥 fake helplessness to evade responsibility
🔥 manipulate empathy for your benefit
🔥 scream “ableism!” anytime someone
checks your goddamn patterned behavior.
babe!
if the behavioral pattern fits???
that means you’ve repeatedly behaved,
shady as fuck.
disloyal.
lied.
cheated.
maybe…stole some shit??
yo.
disability ≠ fucking free-for-all.
trauma ≠ consequence evasion..
full stop.
—
listen.
if your trauma is directly correlated to the behavior,
then cool — directly. correlate. it. 💕
say:
🚩 “this is the trigger.”
🚩 “this is the pattern.”
🚩 “this is what i’m doing to not repeat it.”
that’s ✨accountability.✨
but the weaponizing?
the auto-default “i’m too ill!”
every
fucking
time
you get caught
doing something goddamn unhinged?
the using your diagnosis like a human shield?
✋🙄🤚
—
girl
that’s not coping
that’s fucking strategy.
you’re not healing —
you’re fucking hiding.
🤫
and shit,
everyone sees it.
✨🙏✨
