this is domestic violence. full stop. 💸✨🪦✨
ok, so.
💸✨🪦✨💰
i need everyone
to stop fucking playing
that abuse ends
when the punches stop.
✨🤫🥊✨
baby,
it doesn’t. 🤑
per the
U.S. National Coalition
Against Domestic Violence:
✨👤🫵🏻
economic abuse
is when an abuser
“controls a victim’s ability
🔥 to acquire,
🔥 use,
🔥 and maintain
economic resources,”
🤰🏼👶🏼💸✨
trapping them in
dependence and instability.
✨🪦✨
sweetheart.
he didn’t stop abusing me.
he goddamn changed weapons.
💸💸💸💸
this is the reality
i am
✨the sole caretaker of his child.✨
a baby.
22 months old.
he knows this. 💰
there is
a court order
for child support.
clear amount.
clear start date.
clear enforcement path.
👏🏻✨💰
he has paid…
nothing.
besides one (1)
👏🏻✨💰
$100 payment 💥💥
that comes out to
exactly
.30 a day.😵💫
the same morning
i goddamn outted
his first awkward-ass
alleged “affair”
💍🤫❤️🔥
(see here)
lmfao.
YES 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨
—
✨✍️✨
that is not an accident.
sweetie,
that is an action. 💫
let’s be specific,
since people love
pretending
this is “complicated”
or his counsel
feigning
that they
don’t comprehend…
✨✋😬🤚✨💰
💥💥
”two
orders
already
exist”
😵💫🥴🤑
…
ok.
✊🏻🥺
💥 protect that deadbeat, bro.
💸💸💸💸
💸💸💸
💸💸
💸
✨🕊️💰💰💰
…
babe.
are you ok???
🗣️⚠️ y’all passed the bar???
…right??
🗣️⚠️ y’all know what “court order” means???
because
homie—
🔥🔥🔥 this is economic domestic violence. 🔥🔥🔥
—
to recap
for the people
still protecting abusive men:
economic DV includes:
💥 withholding financial support 💸
💥 ignoring court‑ordered obligations 💸
💥 leaving one parent to absorb all childcare costs 💸
💥 using money to control, punish, or destabilize 💸
💥 creating chronic scarcity that limits safety and choice 💸
shit.
it is recognized
in domestic violence frameworks
because it produces
the same outcome
as physical violence:
✨fear.
✨instability.
✨dependence.
✨exhaustion.
✨loss of autonomy.
💰💰💰
—
homie,
🔥 cosigned $600 a month carnote—
🔥 promised he’d pay it
(mid-his cheating/lying “career launch”)
✨👤🫵🏻
🔥 then totaled
🔥 my paid off vehicle—
🔥 3 days before i gave birth
🔥 used the cash value
🔥 to pay off the credit card debt
🔥 he ran up on my cards
🔥 I PAID to fix the vehicle✨💫
🔥 he drove it into the fucking ground
🔥 and then dumped us
🔥 with all the fucking debt.✨
🔥 and $3k more in car repairs
🔥 when he fucking bounced!!!
💸✨🪦✨
🔥 oh!
🔥 and stole my tuition refund✨💫
🔥 and then used our dependent benefits
🔥 to support some random-ass woman’s kids!!✨
in fucking…TEXAS. ⭐🇨🇱🔥 🔥 🔥
🤠👍✨
babe!
this is
TOP 👏🏻
TIER 👏🏻
ABUSIVE. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
🌶️🤠🐎🔥🔥🔥
…
the only difference
is there are
no goddamn bruises
to fucking document.
but yo!
🗣️⚠️ this is a fucking chokehold
🔥 every week
🔥 he doesn’t pay
🔥 is pressure on my throat.
not metaphorically.
fucking functionally. 💸🔥🔥
—
because while he
withholds ALL money,
i still have to:
🏠💥 feed our child
🏠💥 house our child
🏠💥 insure our child
🏠💥 transport our child
🏠💥 protect our child
babe!
✨ i cannot opt out.
✨ i cannot pause.
✨ i cannot “just not.”
he knows that. 💸
…
that’s why it works.✨💫
🗣️⚠️ stop calling it neglect.
🗣️⚠️ it’s violence.
🗣️⚠️ against his own baby.
—
babe.
neglect is passive.
this is fucking deliberate.
🗣️⚠️ he is not “unable.”
he’s out with
another chick’s children.
🔥 ball parks.
🔥 drinking.
🔥 partying.
🔥 concerts.
🔥 raves.
🔥 holidays
🔥 traveling with his side hoe.
💰💰💰💰💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑
shit.
he is choosing
not to pay
while knowing it forces me into:
⚠️ constant financial crisis
⚠️ FOOD SHORTAGES
⚠️ credit damage
⚠️ housing precarity
⚠️ nervous system collapse
⚠️ zero margin for error
💸💸💸
yo!!!
that is coercive control.
that is punishment.
…
that is fucking domestic violence. 🏠🔥
ok but,
here’s the part
that should make
the room go quiet
when this continues —
when enforcement stalls,
when institutions delay,
when people minimize it —
you are not fucking neutral.
🗣️⚠️ you are
part of the mechanism.
💸💸💸
because
abuse doesn’t stop
just because it’s bureaucratic.
the baby still eats.
the bills still come.
the chokehold stays tight.
✨🏆✨
call it what it is
or stop pretending
you care about survivors
—
nah.
this is not a “support dispute.”
this is not “family court drama.”
this is not bitterness.
this is ongoing domestic violence,
🤜🏻💥😵💸
carried out through money,
enabled by stalling,
and disguised as paperwork.
✨🤡💸 🚩
no fists.
same outcome.
—
✨💵💵💵✨
baby!
don’t believe me??
check the docs!
✨🕊️🧾
