we all fucking lost ✨🏆👉🤡

babe.

we all fucking lost.

🏆🥇🥈...👋😢

there is no trophy ❌🏆
for “stayed alive while pregnant.”
no medal ❌🏅
for “documented the strangulation.”
no applause ❌👏
for “single-parented through FRO hearings.”

—

trauma is entropy —
goddamn disorder
😩🤯🌪️
injected into a system.
you cannot erase
the entropy event.
but you can reorganize
the chaos afterward
into a new structure.
it’s not the same structure.
but it can be stable.

—

we lost.
the baby loses
the fantasy of
two regulated adults.
the bitch that lived
loses safety and time
and fucking
nervous system capacity.
the wife-puncher loses 🥊😵
whatever humanity they had left.
extended families lose denial.

😫🙏🔥🙇😭

—

shit,

🔥🗑️

winning after DV
doesn’t look like revenge.
nah,
it looks like:

🔥 not dying.
🔥 not being silenced.
🔥 not internalizing shame.
🔥 not letting the ops rewrite the narrative
🔥 your daughter growing up with one stable parent instead of two fucked-up ones.

we
all
fucking
lose

—

we lose
the version of life
that could have been.

but yo,
that survival
is not neutral.
it changes the trajectory.

a fractured family
where one parent chose violence
is not morally symmetrical.

there is no justice
that restores innocence.
fucking facts.

justice doesn’t
rewind time.

🧸🍼😇