i’m actually pretty chill ⚡

yo.

ok but—

i don’t
have a problem
with stepfamilies.
🦄✨
i don’t
have a problem
with half-siblings.
💖💫
i don’t
have a problem
with people moving on.

nah.

i genuinely
like to see people happy.
🕊️💕
even if
it’s not with me.

🫢💥️

(i am serious)

i’m not jealous by nature.

🙃👉👈

(i am serious)


i’ve only been
madly in love once.
it wasn’t with my husband.
that’s not a flex.
it’s just a fact.

🤍✨🌙🦋

so this
isn’t about
a little hurt ego.
it’s not about possession.
it’s not about pick me vibes.

lol ew.

homie — do you.
(i am so serious)
♾️❤️


build
your squad.
expand your life.
live and let live.

💍🤵🏼👰🏼✨

honestly though.

just also admit the rest.

🦋 admit that before you built anything new, you were violent.
🦋 admit that there were multiple moments where we were not safe.
🦋 admit that strangulation and repeated assault aren’t “marital conflict.”
🦋 admit that leaving wasn’t a clean exit — it was abandonment.

🦋 admit that you refuse to financially support your own child.
🦋 admit that you tried to punish me when i wouldn’t disappear quietly.
🦋 admit that every time i tried to recover what was legally and morally mine, you escalated.

hello.

🚫 that’s not me retaliating. 🚫


that’s me
attempting to
fucking survive.

🫶🏻

that’s me
trying to stabilize my life
after you destabilized it.
that’s me
trying to reclaim
sanity,
money,
security,
⚡ and fucking dignity
that should never
have been taken in the first place.

👏🙄👏

you want so badly,
to frame it as revenge
because that sounds better
than
“she
attempted
repeatedly
to go through
private 🦋
and then
appropriate 🦋
legal channels.”

🇨🇱🤠⭐

that’s not retaliation.

that’s the truth.

and yo.

none of this
required an audience of enablers.
but
somehow
there were people
who watched the spiral
and said
…nothing.
💖💫
or worse —
co-signed that shit.

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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