proximate cause 🥊😵, you little fucks ✨⚖️🔥

hey y’all.

…so…

i almost died.

🏃⚡️🤫

not “omg that was scary.”
not “girly trauma aesthetic.”
not vibes.
not revenge.
not fucking hysteria.

🔥🥊😵

i
almost.

fucking.
died.

🐀💫

so yo
when i ask:

who the fuck
negligently or recklessly
enabled a foreseeable harm?

💣💥

lol girl.

that’s not me
being paranoid.

lol.
nah.

that’s proximate cause analysis, babes.
that’s tort law.
that’s ✨who else touched the goddamn gasoline can✨.

because
it appears like…

✨✋😬🤚

🔥 you knew he was unstable. ✨
🔥 you knew he was financially dependent. ✨
🔥 you knew he was spiraling. ✨
🔥 you knew he was using. ✨
🔥 you blurred all professional fucking boundaries. ✨
🔥 you injected money into an addict.
🔥 you escalated ego validation. ✨
🔥 you undermined sobriety attempts. ✨
🔥 you created financial pressure on a pregnant wife. ✨
🔥 you concealed material information.
🔥 you reinforced instability instead of mitigating it. ✨

and then you act
fucking shocked????

shocked.

💀😧

like the house
just spontaneously
goddamn combusted.

how could this happen

🤪🤯💥

babe.

foreseeability ✨🙃

honey.

despite everything,
i still think my husband is a victim.

🫢💥️

💥️ of ptsd.
💥️ of watching people fucking explode.
💥️ of syria.
💥️ of afghanistan.
💥️ of fucking blast exposure
that literally turns your frontal lobe
into goddamn jello.

and babe!

he didn’t
fucking punch me
or financially obliterate me
when he held…an actual job.

🙃🌈✨

do you hear
what i am saying???

let that sink.

🤡🤡🤡

because
look,
the way i remember it?? —

he tries to get sober.

✨💫

changes jobs. 💫
changes tracks. 💫
marries a woman who doesn’t even party. 💫
fully fucking commits. 💫

LOL

and THEN
we get recruited into this fucking
career pipeline

pipeline?

👊💥🤕🤰🧾

that shit was a
fucking frat house with
goddamn business cards.

⚡️ supervisors not goddamn supervising —
⚡️ women telling him to come in office when his wife is 8 months pregnant.
⚡️ women inviting him to their private homes.
⚡️ business meetings that feel like…fucking partying.
⚡️ women inviting him out drinking.
⚡️ women constantly privately in contact him for “mentoring.”
⚡️ women who induced my reliance;
fucking wiring money into a relapse window
like it’s a fucking venmo loyalty program.

professional environment

lmfao

please.

chick-fil-a had more structure than you.

🐔🥪🧇🍟🥤

he didn’t financially
fucking nuke my life flipping chicken.

👨‍💼🐔🚫☀️

but you corporate fuckboys
in business casual? 🏅
🔥 you
🔥 fucking
🔥 did
executive mentorshipdid.

so,
do i think
he’s fucking innocent?

🗣️ absolutely the fuck not.

that man
punched me.
repeatedly. 🤰

and

trauma explains volatility.
it does not erase fucking agency.

🕊️✨

but babe,
volatility doesn’t
increase in a fucking vacuum.

🔥🏦

nah.

so…who gassed the fire? 🔥🔥👥💥

who created
the fucking dependency
on the pregnant wife
funding the goddamn dream?

🐀✨🤫🔥

who kept her in the dark
while hosting bar nights and private apartments?

😦💥️🫣

who blurred fiduciary lines
and called it fucking networking?

🫵🤥✨

who reinforced ego collapse
and called it “team culture”?

🤫⚖️💰

right til the end it was like:

😦 “bro this is sick.”
😦 “we love partying with you.”
😦 “your wife’s about to give birth? damn that’s crazy.”

sucks for her

lol.

ok but
criminal law
asks who fucking punched you???

civil law
asks who poured
the goddamn gasoline.

and honey—

⚡️ enablement isn’t neutral.
⚡️ ego reinforcement during addiction isn’t innocent.
⚡️ pregnancy is a known fucking lethality risk period.
⚡️ destabilized men don’t implode randomly.

🇨🇱🤠🤔

they implode in
goddamn ecosystems.

ecosystem

lol

he chose violence.

🚧 but you amplified instability.
🚧 you rewarded collapse.
🚧 you injected volatility into a high-risk window
and called it
fucking ✨opportunity

but…

i almost died.

😨💥💀

simplified for the liars:

💥🧠

he had red fucking flags.
you fucking amplified.
foreseeability exists.
liability goddamn expands.

because look—

professional boundaries
were apparently
fucking optional.

👊💥🤕🤰🧾

like

women
attempting
ego validation
with a
married combat vet
with a
baby on the goddamn way.

😟💭🔥🗑️

fucking genius.

and

💥 completely
💥 fucking
💥 foreseeable.

🥊😵

lol
no problem—

fuck around,
meet proximate cause.

💀🔥⚖️

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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