the completely innocent & absolutely not-at-all suspicious™ edition 😌🕊️
ok so.
shit.
that wasn’t
“oops! bad friend” behavior.
…
🤡🤸💥
it was anti-human behavior.
morally bankrupt.
spiritually hollow.
psychologically fucking predatory.
and yo,
it sure as fuck
wasn’t giving—
guiltless.
🙏😌🕊️
—
be for real,
you absolutely know…
⭐️ HOMIE,
I AM IN AN ACTIVE,
ONGOING DV SHITSHOW.
✨ not historic trauma.
✨ not “i had a tough marriage.”
✨ not vague emotional stress.
…nah.
bro, i am:
💥 under a Final Restraining Order 💕
💥 under a Colorado Protection Order 💕
💥 victim in a felony strangulation case 💕
…
💥 in an active, ongoing threat situation
💥 raising a baby alone
💥 recovering from literal physical + economic violence
💥 navigating the aftermath by myself
💥 being stalked
💥 being harassed online
💥 having institutions weaponized against me
💥 being financially abused
💥 managing PTSD
💥 navigating law school without any child care
💥 teaching myself how legal filings fucking work
💥 living with goddamn safety protocols
💥 communicating with the state
💥 checking windows and doors at night
…
BRO.
this is the peak of
human fucking vulnerability.
🕊️
so…
this is the moment
where ANY
🥰 normal person —
🥰 acquaintance,
🥰 fucking stranger,
🥰 neighbor—
softens.
this is the point
ANYONE with half
a fucking soul
instinctively behaves with:
✨ gentleness
✨ care
✨ concern
✨ protection
✨ de-escalation
✨ compassion
✨ empathy
✨ any goddamn restraint
but nah.
my girl
responded like
the actual fucking opp 💥
—
it checks.
⭐️ but shit.
she didn’t just
fail to support me
when it
really fucking mattered—
💖🥰💞
she ACTIVELY
tried to HARM me
in the process.
🤯💫
my girlie reacted with:
💥 actual unfounded accusations
💥 personal unrelated sob stories
💥 random ass character attacks
💥 textbook DARVO
💥 rewriting history
💥 memory loss of past known behavior
💥 unearned moral superiority
💥 blatant emotional manipulation
💥 denial of reality
💥 hella tone policing
💥 “you’re paranoid / delusional” despite FACTS.
💥 WEAPONIZED past sexual abuse
💥 zero empathy
💥 zero care
💥 zero safety fucking instinct
💥 …fucking irrelevant medical conditions????
…
like shit,
even me,
LEARNING ABOUT THE TREASON,
AFTER THE SHOCK—
one of my
first thoughts was…
wait—
a fucking second!
…
⚡️ ”DID THIS MAN HURT YOU??”
⚡️ ”DID YOU KNOW HE DID THIS??”
...
???
…
???
NOTHING.
lol
but nah,
she’s got
absolutely fucking—
zero curiosity. 😦
no,
but like…
💥 NOT A SINGLE
💥 fucking question—
💥 about
💥 absolutely
💥 any
💥 details:
like—
✨ “babe! what?! where was this?!”
✨ ”sam—are you sure?!”
✨ ”omg, WHEN???? that’s scary!!”
✨ ”WAS IT WHEN I WAS DRUNK??”
✨ “was i awake??!”
✨ ”what fucking DAY did she get it?!”
…
nope.
just character attacks ✨🕊️
and weaponized sexual trauma.
the goddamn dream-team.
👍🙂✨
cool.
seems like a totally
✨rational and reasonable response.✨
…
lol.
it’s giving very, very:
”innocent”
✨🤫✨
like damn,
do you understand
how psychologically violent that shit is?
…girl 🔥📢
this is what people do to
abuse victims to silence them.💫
this is how abusers…respond.
not the victims.
babe,
honestly???
i didn’t hear
a single
goddamn coherent
fucking narrative
in the whole goddamn epic novel.
so be for real—
✨ this is not friend energy.
✨ this is not human empathy.
✨ this is for damn sure not emotional intelligence.
nah.
this is someone whose
self-image
is
💥 SO
💥 fucking
💥 fragile
that my fuckload of trauma,
legit danger,
realistic fear,
lived and breathed reality,
✨the actual fucking record,✨
and…
the fucking behavior facts,
were all smaller to her
than 👏
her 👏
ego. 👏
🔥🔥🔥
…
goddamn shocking.
—
babe.
let’s review what
you knew—
🚩 i almost died
🚩 i was strangled while pregnant.
🚩 i was punched, spit on, smothered, beaten.
🚩 we fucking escaped
🚩 we fled TWO 👏 DV 👏 households 👏 (jackpot)
🚩 i’m raising a baby absolutely alone
🚩 i’m financially desperate
🚩 i’m fighting for my life in court
🚩 i live in active fear
🚩 i am being stalked
🚩 my ex is HELLA FUCKING dangerous
🚩 i have NO family support
and instead of:
💕 supporting
💕 staying rational
💕 stabilizing
💕 asking questions
💕 clarifying
💕 comforting
💕 staying on topic
💕 grounding
💕 showing ANY fucking consideration
…
nah.
of course not.
you were
just like…
“OMG”
🧚♀️ i’m chronically ill!✨
💖 i love my ex, ✨
🥰 current now, ✨
🕊️ former ex-EX, ✨
💞 LOVE OF MY WHOLE-ASS LIFE. ✨
🦄 i mean…
🔥 YES…i do cheat,✨
BUT
just like…
💕 NOT WITH YOUR MAN.✨
🏆 i’m a great friend, ✨
🙃 but ALSO,
🪄 i didn’t actually have
🙏 the time or energy…
🧘♀️ to be a fucking friend. ✨
🌈 ALSO
your dad abusing you,
…MAKES YOU THE HAZARD 🔥🔥
and…
like…
disturbs me
as someone who had to
hear about it secondhand…🥺🥺
and
LOOK—
✨this is really…fucking essentially…
!!!
ALL about ME.✨
…
…😦
the fuck are you on about rn.
lol.
ok…right.
so like…damn.
absolutely
wild-ass display.
…✨clearly innocent behavior✨
