💖 omg babe, i wasn't jealous. i was correct—predator edition.💖🦁🪨🌿💀

lol
no but fr.
for the sake of
the ever-evolving
shitshow of a plot—
⚠️ my “predator” alarm ⚠️
didn’t trip
because i thought
”omg! jealous vibes”
—nah.
it tripped because of…

💥 power + 💥 secrecy + 💥 humiliation + 💥 proximity.
the four things that
always precede bullshit.

🦁🪨🌿💀

—

honestly,
my body didn’t fail.
it clocked that shit.

🧃 here’s what went down — real time.

✨ i’m visibly pregnant.
✨ i’m paying for everything, including his delusions.
✨ i walk into a meeting he needed — and i’m the one who had the money.
✨ ms. powertrip insurance supervisor decides to neg my entire legal career in front of him like we’re on fucking tinder.
✨ and then she locks in 1:1 access with an unstable, broke, dependent man who lives with me.

—

zero sales =
for.
my.
entire.
pregnancy.

😭🪦✨

—

so what does ms. supervisor do??

oh, fucking narrative wrench:
🔥 she doesn’t fire him.
🔥 she doesn’t document shit.
🔥 she doesn’t create any fucking boundaries.

🌿💀

—

no, no. NO.
🥺 she keeps him close.
🥺 she tightens the leash.
🥺 she calls it private mentorship.
🥺 daily office hours. zero sales. private meetings. no exit strategy.

🌿💀

—

babe…
lol.
i wasn’t spiraling.
i was watching a slow-motion
ethical fucking collapse,
and everyone was
smiling through it.

🥂💻🚩

—

and look—
the vibe of that shit
was gross✨💫🥰
and highly uncomfortable,
just to watch.

💫

🕯️let’s talk facts—bro was:

🚩 unlicensed
🚩 unpaid
🚩 un-fucking-productive
🚩 commuting 75 minutes each way
🚩 had an increasingly pregnant wife at home
🚩 zero production
🚩 mandated daily office presence
🚩 private access to the “supervisor”
🚩 escalating “support” when he’s clearly tanking

🚩 had coworkers working almost completely remote

—

shit babe,
that’s not “giving him a chance.”
that is exactly what lights up the ⚠️
“something fucking predatory is going on here” alarm 🦈🔪
in bitches
who’ve already
lived through coercive dynamics.

🙏✨🕊️

—

sweetie—
this shit looks like a trauma‑bond power loop:

✨ predatory mentorship grooming → “just us, just this once”
✨ control dynamics → withholding bonuses, using guilt, keeping dependency intact
✨ stress response → complete fucking shutdown, panic, secrecy, drugs, off‑channel behavior

—

and here’s the part
that actually made it undeniable for me —
the part
you don’t miss
unless you’ve lived inside
fucked power dynamics before:

🤫 he resented her.
🤫 you could hear it.
🤫 you could see it.
🤫 in how careful he was.
🤫 in how neutral he stayed.
🤫 in how every complaint stopped one inch short of criticism.

bro didn’t trash her.
bro didn’t joke about her.
bro didn’t even vent.

despite the fact that it
made zero logical sense.

so…in conclusion
🚩 nothing about that shit was normal, homie.

—

nah,
bro was just
an obedient little soldier
for exactly zero dollars pay.

and babe,
this is a man who had
no problem complaining
about literally everything else in his life.

✨🤷‍♂️✨

so when the one person
💞 wrecking our finances,
💞 our stability,
💞 and my pregnancy-era sanity
💞 became untouchable in his mouth?

🏠🔥

yeah, no big deal.

—

lol.

ok but—

✨ that’s not professionalism.
✨ that’s self-censorship under threat.

this wasn’t some messy “work flirtation.”
this was a woman in power
embedding herself in a man’s collapse,
and pretending it was supervision.

nah hun.

that’s what it looks like
when y’all crossed a line,
💀 you heavy regret it.
💀 now you can’t undo it,
because you also know
😭 she controls your monthly income —
and you have
😭 a pregnant wife at home
😭 watching the goddamn bank account freefall.

…

🔥🔥✋😬🤚🔥🔥

—

💖 so you eat it.
💖 you keep showing up.
💖 you start to spiral out of fucking control.
💖 you go into the office like a loyal little employee
💖 through month six.
💖 seven.
💖 eight of pregnancy.
💖 dead of winter,
💖 pregnant wife working 2 jobs,
💖 and home with your 150 pound dog,
💖 daily.
💖 with no pay.
💖 zero production.
💖 and a woman in charge
💖 who somehow never lets you leave.

normal!

—

babe,
that’s not confusion.
that’s not loyalty.
that’s coercive restraint.

—

😇 the silence wasn’t because nothing was wrong.
😇 the silence was because too much was wrong —
😇 and he knew exactly who had leverage.

—

omg.
stop.

it’s just a working theory.