💅✨💍 when you enter a lifelong contract with the number one attempted homicide suspect 🕊️✨
aka: “is he stressed… or is he drafting the obituary?”
✨so fun!!✨
—
ok so!
let’s walk it back
and look how close—
we got to
actually fucking DYING.
✨💀✨
come on babe!
ready??
this is our—
💥family annihilator💥 edition:
🏠🔥
here are the little indications
your man might be on his familicide arc 🌈💀💞
LET’S FUCKING GO:
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1. “i feel like a failure” 🥲 but make it homicidal ✨
soooo cute how
job loss + no money + cheating + choking you pregnant
turns into
“i literally have nothing to lose except… you.”
when a man hits the
💥 financial ruin × ego collapse × everybody-leaves-me 💥 combo pack?
academically speaking, that’s called the
“nothing left to lose, everything left to destroy” mode.
✨🪦✨
like babe!
it’s giving:
“if i can’t win, the family won’t be around to remind me.”
💗🔪
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2. control issues but make it stealing all your income ✂️💘
family annihilators?
baby!
they LOVE control.
deep, bone-deep,
“sell your condo and turn it into
🏆 marital property 🏆 while i beat you”
levels of control.
my man? ✍️✨
✨ isolated me
✨ lived off me
✨ monitored my moves
✨ totaled my paid off car on “substances!”
✨ made pregnancy about HIS emotions
✨ escalated the violence whenever i gained independence or asked QUESTIONS💫
honey,
that’s not “stress.”
that’s family-as-economic control.
so special. 🌈✨
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3. jealousy + narcissism = homicidal villain fatherhood 💫💀
like wowww he really said:
“you and this baby exist only to accessorize my identity.”
family annihilator logic is basically:
“you disappointed me by being real people instead of props for my lies.”
my husband?
he didn’t just cheat.
he created MULTIPLE replacement lives online
while i’m cleaning toilets and he’s choking me pregnant.
that’s not infidelity.
that’s pre-replacement phase.
💕
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4. violence escalation (the prenatal edition) 🫶🔪
non-fatal strangulation during pregnancy???
girl that is not a “fight.”
that is the CDC-certified “homicide preview trailer”.
and he didn’t escalate because he was angry.
he escalated because he was losing his grip.
and when control slips?
annihilators don’t negotiate —
they fucking punish.
💖✨ murder vibes.
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5. “if i can’t have you, i’ll unalive you!”
… but in business casual 🙃
separation + restraining order =
the #1 trigger for familicide events.
because these dudes aren’t grieving the breakup —
they’re grieving the loss of their human possessions.
and they react the same way toddlers do
when you take their favorite toy:
they try to break it.
so cute.
so homicidal.
so, hallmark edition true crime.
🩸
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6. guns are the leading method… but guess what? 🔫
sure, most familicides use firearms.
(because it’s easier)
but A SHIT TON of them don’t.
because you know what else counts?
✨ strangling me.
✨ starving me.
✨ isolating me.
✨ stealing my resources.
putting me in unstable housing with an infant.
not every family annihilator pulls a trigger.
some just set the conditions.
💗🔪✨🔫
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7. revenge as love language 💕🔥🔥
annihilators often think the family “failed” them.
my guy?
he really hit the demon trifecta:
✨ family disappointed him
✨ life disappointed him
✨ finances disappointed him
so naturally, he wanted to punish…
ME.
lol!
cool!!! 🔥🔥🔥
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so what does MY murder plot indicate?
✨🤝💀
it means:
he didn’t marry me for love.
he married me for fucking shelter.
he didn’t build a future with me.
he built a motive.
✨🕊️
he didn’t leave because he was unhappy.
he left because the
annihilation fantasy collapsed ✨💀
before he could fucking finish it.
our cross-country move,
meant there were too many goddamn…
✨witnesses!✨
YES.
TRUTH.
FACTS.
that’s why he wanted
to have another baby,
and for me to buy us a house!
right before he left!!
and babe…
you know what DV textbooks call that?
“a prevented fatality.”
✨🩷 congratulations 🩷✨
i just survived a man
whose self-esteem issues
came with a body count
✨🪦✨
—i just refused to go out like that.
