the “i wouldn’t trust them for shit” instinct 🚨🤡💫

“i wouldn’t
trust them for shit”
—instinct

is the baseline,
not extreme.

if you don’t have it?
seems like
that means you think
this shit is
totally chill
and acceptable behavior.

like, we’re depicting a normal ethical filter:

🤡 if i learn someone is lying to their spouse → i question their honesty
🤡 if i learn someone is using drugs regularly → i question their judgment
🤡 if i learn fucking both → i do not put them in charge of finances, compliance, or vulnerable people

sweetie,
that’s not
god-tier moralities.
that’s basic-ass
risk management.

🚨

if homie is a liar??
bro is a goddamn liability.

so when the opposite happens —
when the whole squad:

🔥 keeps access
🔥 keeps proximity
🔥 keeps authority
🔥 keeps protection

the reasonable inference
is not “oops, ignorance.”

it’s:

🤡

“oh shit—
this behavior
is
either fucking
☠️ normalized,
☠️ minimized, or
☠️ strategically goddamn ignored.”

but
listen…
that little voice
inside my head,
just keeps saying—

❌❌❌

“i don’t know a
single good-faith person
who would be okay
knowing this shit
and not thinking it mattered.”

🤡🚨

babe!
that’s the goddamn floor
of ethical standards.

a genuinely good-faith leader,
upon learning:

🚨 cheating
🚨 drug use
🚨 fucking instability

would either:

  1. intervene

  2. document something

  3. terminate goddamn access

  4. inform affected parties

doing none
of those things??
and then staying silent??
is not neutral.

it’s a choice, baby.

🐍💫

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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