the office affair: an american femicide problem

you know
what’s fucking insane?
office-workplace-bullshit
like this?
shit’s been fucking over wives—
for-fucking-ever.

because look—
this isn’t just my story.
this is the fucking playbook.
and it’s been killing women
for fucking decades.

like what’s the most
american thing?
the hidden workplace affair.
the office “inside joke.”
the wink-wink,
nudge-nudge that a man
has a side chick
at the fucking cubicle
while the wife is home
with the goddamn kids.

and the whole
fucking office whispers.
they know.
they laugh at her pain.
they turn it into a fucking pun.
they don’t see the blood yet,
so they think it’s fucking funny.

but here’s the thing—
statistically,
the wife is the one
who ends up
in the fucking morgue.

facts don’t lie, even if your advisors do:

✘ nearly 1 in 3 women killed worldwide
are killed by an intimate partner (WHO, 2021).

✘ in the u.s., more than half of female
homicide victims are killed by current
or former intimate partners. (CDC, 2017).

✘ one of the most dangerous flashpoints?
abandonment + infidelity.

when men step out,
they don’t just fuck around—
they motherfucking escalate.
that’s the lethal cocktail:
jealousy,
humiliation,
financial drain,
loss of control.
fucking textbook.

so yeah—
this is bigger than
“lol it was awkward”

no, bitch.

they didn’t just nod along—
they played fucking chauffeur
for an affair partner
to come hold my goddamn
fucking newborn,
while my husband
was punching me
in the fucking head.
(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
you thought that was funny.
you thought that shit was cute.
meanwhile,
every fucking DV textbook
in motherfucking america screams:
this is the homicide pipeline.

historical roll call of women
chewed the fuck up by this “joke” culture:

✘ 1970s–80s: how many “mystery disappearances” of wives
were later tied to cheating executives, corporate relocations,
“awkward work relationships”?
too fucking many to count.

✘ nicole brown simpson.
ring a fucking bell?
she told fucking everyone
he was gonna kill her.
the cops fucking lol’ed.
the nfl goddamn shrugged.

✘ how many true crime
fucking podcasts start with
“he was having an affair at work”?
you goddamn assholes—
practically all of them.

the office affair isn’t just a side plot.
it’s the fucking motive.
it’s the fucking weapon.

and here i am,
a still-legal wife,
financially obliterated,
emotionally demolished,
carrying the whole fucking
house of cards on my back,
being told by a senior advisor
that my abuser and his
female fucking coworker
were goddamn “close”
and she left
the whole fucking industry
after it got “awkward?”

shut the fuck up.

like do you fucking hear yourself?
this isn’t “awkward.”
this is the exact recipe
for a homicide case file.

numbers again,
since y’all love metric
at your little frat firm:

✘ 94% of female homicide victims
killed by men knew their killer (Violence Policy Center, 2020).

✘ 64% were wives, ex-wives, or girlfriends.

✘ infidelity + separation = one of the top predictors of femicide.

you pompeous mediocre fucks—
every DV researcher
has been screaming this shit
since the 1990s (!!!!)
so tell me,
how the fuck
do you look at a combat vet
with motherfucking PTSD,
a goddamn TBI,
a financial dependency on his fucking wife,
a giggling female coworker on fucking speed dial,
and a pregnant spouse at home—
and think this is a fucking joke?

baby—
you didn’t just miss the red flags.
you chased those fuckers. ☠️🚩
🚩 you collected them.
🚩 you archived them.
🚩 you laughed at them.
🚩🚩🚩🚩
and you sent them on
a fucking field trip
to my goddamn house,
to hold my fucking baby.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

so here it is, you dipshits:
this fucking lawsuit
is for every woman
who got laughed at
by the mistress in fucking HR.
for every wife bankrupted
by the “work bestie” who thought
she was main fucking character energy.
for every goddamn homicide file
stamped with the words:
domestic violence,
suspected infidelity.

⚠️🤰🥊💥💀🤡

(!!!!!!!)

this ain’t no awkward joke.
this ain’t no girlboss move.
this is fucking manslaughter by culture.
this is the patriarchy’s HR department
signing fucking death certificates
in quipping motherfucking format.

you want my legal stance?
fine.
my legal stance is that
your office culture was
a material condition of
my fucking abuse.
you incentivized it.
you fostered it.
you fucking laughed at it.
and history,
statistics,
and every homicide data set
in goddamn america
prove exactly what i’m saying:

the office affair doesn’t just wreck homes.
it fucking kills wives.

you are all culpable as fuck.

🔥 end of entry.