how to bankrupt your baby mama and still post bond… twice ✴︎

coercive control: the deluxe financial fuck-you edition

monthly disability check:
→ $1600+ from military,
→ that shit was raised $300+ when i birthed his fucking daughter
→ keeps it all. doesn’t share a fucking dime.

• child support sent since 2024:
  → one (1) venmo: $100
  → memo said: “daddy misses you”
  → payment rejected prior. never re-sent.
  → we’re on WIC.
  → he’s on double government-sponsored benefits.
  → refuses to pay $87/week for food.

• mutual debt left in my name:
  → $600 car loan + $400/month insurance
  → co-signed + promised to cover before he totaled my old car
  → vanished despite promising not to abandon us economically
  → drove it into the fucking ground like it was his.
  ~$20k+ in transporting, repairs, labor.
  
  

• GI bill transfer (baby, i swear):
  → promised to transfer benefits to me or our child
  → aka: the price of my fucking loyalty + my entire fucking life savings
  → used my savings account / tuition money to launch his career
  → never transferred shit / refused after i drained everything
  → guess who’s now enrolled again?
  
  

• career investment (funded by me):
  → licensing, training, wardrobe, travel
  → $10k+ minimum
  → all during my second / third trimester
  aka: real man shit.
  → all while he sat on his ass saying “i’m trying”
  aka: texting his female coworker and getting
  untaxable kickbacks from her, instead of making
  money for your actual family.
  
  

• tax fraud?:

  → claims $5k total on joint-taxes despite various jobs +
  whole ass career in finance for ~half a goddamn year
  → malevolent other half = currently being hunted by the IRS.
  → my $3,000 refund is eaten by his fucking tax bullshit

…this is all in:
~one
fucking
year.

reads like: god-tier fucking abusive exploiter.

deadbeat daddy ≠ suddenly got stacks? 🧐💸

let’s break that felony funding shit down.

• ✦ two private criminal defense attorneys:
  ~roughly $7,000–$12,000 retainer each

• ✦ felony-level bond posted (twice, lol)
  → $50k texas + $10k colorado bonds
  ~roughly $5,000–$10,000 cash minimum

• ✦ flights TX ⇄ CO (2x round trip):
  ~roughly $500+ total

• ✦ all this while “not working,”
  claiming to be “a teacher’s aide,”
  living on “just disability + stolen child bump $,”
  and “can’t afford” to feed his kid.

*🤡 he said “i’m broke.” but he meant: broke morally.”

👏🏿👏🏽👏🏻👏🏾👏🏼

lmfao.
who
the
fuck
is bankrolling this bullshit?
nah, like—for real:
who
the
fuck—
is backing this absolute
abusive-levels of financial fuckery?

you are
aiding
ongoing
domestic
fucking
violence.

👏🏿👏🏽👏🏻👏🏾👏🏼
👏🏿👏🏽👏🏻👏🏾👏🏼
👏🏿👏🏽👏🏻👏🏾👏🏼

these bitches (👺👺👺👺) are
really fucking out here:
funding a
fucking
felony
(!!!)
y’all are fucking clowns.
🤡🎡🎪🍿
while his baby remains
economically abandoned—
ok sure.
that’s true devil shit.

🔥💰💰💰💰💰🔥

🚨 why this ain’t financial hardship — it’s fucking abuse 🚨

coercive control: deluxe army ranger / ivy league — golden boy courtroom edition

baby—
this isn’t financial hardship.
this is coercive control—
weaponized through money, timing, and legal maneuvering.
abuse doesn’t end at the restraining order.
it just changes fucking form.

▶︎ coercive control is a recognized pattern of domestic abuse under
laws like the UK’s Serious Crime Act 2015 and reflected in U.S. DV literature:
 → economic deprivation 💀
 → isolation 💀
 → legal funds out of fucking nowhere 💀
 → reputation gaslighting (she’s lying about being punched/strangled) 💀
 → selective access to resources 💀

= 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

▶︎ he’s not funding survival (diapers, food, child support)
 → he’s funding strategy (attorneys, bonds, unnecessary fucking travel)

▶︎ control by proxy is a DV fucking hallmark
 → enablers, lawyers, money, and institutions used as shields or fucking weapons

▶︎ economic abuse is a fucking lethality factor
 → especially post-separation, duh.
 → especially when combined with legal retaliation or parental abandonment

this isn’t broke behavior.
it’s battlefield budgeting.
and y’all—
he’s fighting to control,
not to get help.

baby,
he’s not broke.
he’s just refusing to support
the fucking life he goddamn created.
instead, he’s spending fucking thousands
to dodge accountability for crimes
he actually fucking committed.

🤡💀

sweetheart,
go back to repenting.
lying to a judge looks pathetic on you.