👋🏽 federally funded—wife beaters inc. ✶🪖🇺🇸

hey y’all!!—
you finally showed up.
152.xxx.xx.x,
tic.va.gov. 👋🏽
got that fed badge,
baby,
chrome browser,
colorado.

what’s up?


don’t act shy—
you read
the origin story,
faqs,
terms & threats,
and damn,
burn book.
you clicked through
like a goddamn
bored-ass auditor.
but let’s not pretend
you don’t know
why you’re here.

because hey.

you are now
in possession of
actual knowledge of:

fraud risk → veteran dependency
benefits under 38 u.s.c. § 1115 and
apportionment under § 5307 are
being misused.
the dependent bump ($300+) added
to this dude’s soldier money
when i birthed his daughter
has not been used
for her care. lol.
one venmo—$100
in 10 months.
the rest?
i guess diverted.

legal risk → same combat-trained
beneficiary is technically still
extremely violent.
considering my guy
strangled and assaulted
his pregnant wife.
lethality factors recognized
under doj lethality assessment protocols.
and yet your checks keep cashing.


reputational risk → every fact here
exposes you as
the only employer in america
where:

severe-level DV +
nonpayment of support =
continued paycheck.

cool. 💀💀💀

🪖 here’s your own rulebook:

38 c.f.r. § 3.450: if the vet fails
to reasonably discharge
his responsibility
for support,
benefits may be apportioned
to the spouse/child.

38 c.f.r. § 3.451: “special apportionment”
is supposed to prevent hardship
to dependents.
spoiler: my baby is on welfare.
hardship achieved.

va handbook 5019: you even
claim to have a domestic violence
program coordinator
.
comic, where she at?
because i walked in to the local VA,
and they told me support was
only for him.
doesn’t seem
100% legal—am i right? lol

dod instruction 6400.06:
family advocacy program 🔥
is allegedly designed to
“address and prevent family violence.”
ok. command discretion = lol 💀

so you tell me:
is the “support” being provided
when i’m rationing groceries
and he’s posting bond
while living on your money?

⚖️ so, my federally funded wife beaters inc. :

consider this not just an email,
but constructive notice.
you’ve clicked my site.
you’ve read the allegations.
you are now bound by
your own statutory authority:

investigate dependency misuse (38 u.s.c. § 1115).
process apportionment (38 u.s.c. § 5307).
✘ stop financing an abuser under the guise of “service.”

failure to act = complicity.
failure to redirect = fraud by omission.

💀 conclusion:
you created him.
you trained him.
you funded him.

and now you’re fucking here.

because hey—

this is no longer just his problem.
it’s your institutional liability.

because look,
i’m not the only wife—
this shit
happens to,
and i bet you know that.

✶🪖🇺🇸

you are all
complicit as fuck.

💫

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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