you’re either psychic 🔮🪬✨ or concealing material facts.

🔮✨ email from katie r., jan 17, 2025:

“are we just changing the payment info or do you want to take brandon off your monthly payment?”

stop. ✨✋👁️

first thought:

who the fuck is this?

deadass.
never seen this woman in my life.
never emailed her.
never spoken to her.
didn’t know she existed.
and she’s in my inbox
asking if i want to drop
my husband from the account???

nah.
run it back.

—

🧨 quick context

i was
frantically trying
to cut off hubby’s access
to my bank account,
because he hadn’t paid
a single f*cking bill in months,
but was still draining shit
for his personal expenses.

so
i go into the NM portal,
try to update my payment info,
because i had to
get a whole new
fucking bank account
and i’m
thinking i’ll reach jess—
you know,
my actual assigned
financial representative
and
repeatedly referenced
point of contact.

the same chick
who was
still regularly monitoring
my socials
where i’m now:
disclosing
lethal dv during pregnancy,
my estrangement,
and photos of my injuries,
from oddly
when they were
particularly
extraordinarily close.

with fucking receipts.

—

so✨
i see her
actively watching me.
but babe—
when
i send a message
about my account?

nope.
nah—
no response.
no portal trail i can see.
no sign of jess.

instead,
this random-ass woman
pops up in my inbox
like
“hey babe,
you trying to—
out of the fucking blue—
get your legal husband
off your account?”

🤨 tf?

—

only two ways she knew.

both bad.✨

—

🚨 option 1: she found out through access to me

🧠 i set my ig to private & filtered all the views
🧠 my husband had threatened me repeatedly about disclosing abuse
🧠 private mode = i made sure i restricted his access
↳i constantly filtered views
↳even through spontaneous new stalker accounts
↳i allowed jess to retain access.
↳which she utilized, regularly.
↳because she was a neutral professional.
🧠 only person who could’ve seen my private IG posts = jess
🧠 those posts were only about the estrangement in the context of domestic violence
🧠 if they got info from me, they ignored red-flag disclosures
↳aka stripped entire context of posting bruises
↳framed it as “messy seperation”
🧠 and instead of escalating it
↳they disjointed my account, lapsed my policies
↳and tried to re-enroll me for double commissions.

so yeah.
they used my abuse as gossip to defraud me?
unclear.

..
✨🪬 (but just in case) 🪬✨

—

🚨 option 2: she found out through access to my husband

🧠 hubby was confirmed to not be in contact with NM at this time
↳”he doesn’t answer my calls” —new rep
🧠 so only current pipeline = jess
🧠 which means post-FRO, she’s both:
↳viewing my private social disclosures about violence—
↳and she’s still in contact with my estranged husband
↳and they clearly have knowledge of that fact
↳and now—refuse to fully disclose it
↳besides a condescending “it was awkward” comment
🧠 and they have been relaying updates
↳about my marital status to the team managing my finances

before…

✨potentially—
✨blatantly
defrauding me…
again?
and
continuing to
conceal
material facts?

damn.✨

—

so—
in conclusion:
that’s insane.
you don’t need
a law degree to know
that looks fucked.

🪬✨

maybe because…

this isn’t a fluke.
baby,
it’s a setup.

—

this email
seems to prove
insider information
of concealed material facts.
it seems to prove
they had backchannel info.
and it seems to prove
they acted on that info
against my best interests,
definitely not
to protect me.

🪬✨

this seems to
indicate
retaliation,
plain and fucking simple.

✨🔮💜