✨what feels like…✨ having an active malicious stalker 👀🔪👤🌳

✶ or—😨
let’s all act like
this isn’t an absolutely insane
level of professional misconduct.

✨👏😐

aka: what y’all are calling “just views” is legally flirting with a stalking charge.

let me first say,
thank you for the ongoing ptsd.

✨👏😐

because honestly?
it’s abusive.
so please,
cut the bullshit
this isn’t a misunderstanding.
this is textbook
escalatory contact
by someone with
no lawful reason to access me
and a known history of proximity to
a dude that tried to kill me,
when they were
peak fucking cubicle besties.

the silence
from corp?
the slow-walking
response from her legal rep?
the lack of disclosures
while i beg for fucking clarity
and get watched instead?

by all of you?
on the record?
for months??

that’s not a policy violation.
sounds like—
that’s facilitated stalking.

here's what you can't explain away:

★ this random-ass goblin was never my friend
★ she is no longer my financial rep (!!!!!!!!)
★ she has no current business contacting, viewing, following, or accessing my accounts
★ she deleted the account that tied us professionally after i sent a legal hold
★ she immediately reappeared using her full face and legal name on another platform
★ she viewed my content repeatedly from october 2024 and september 2025
★ while i was:
under a restraining order
fleeing domestic violence
→ caring for a newborn alone
requesting safety clarifications from the firm
documenting every fucking interaction

and the firm ✨knew this
because i told them.
in writing.
multiple fucking times.

now add ✨motive + means:

✦ she allegedly sent money to my husband while
↳ i was being financially drained, physically abused, and isolated
✦ she had internal access to my accounts, documents, medical records and timeline
↳ via a role she never should have been in
✦ she seems to have reappeared near him geographically
↳ during a known period of escalation and potentially—his fucking arrest
✦ she continues to monitor me in real time
✦ she has made zero attempts to clarify or correct behavior

under any competent legal analysis, this reads as:

pattern of unwanted conduct
directed at a specific person
causing serious emotional distress
after express notice
with prior warning from a protected party
following a deletion of formal contact
during ongoing litigation and criminal proceedings

you think a judge won’t find that significant?

fucking try me.

and the psychological damage?

i don’t sleep.
i can barely eat.
i track exits.
i screen-record pings.
i escalate to security.
i document the fucking fallout with my child in the frame.

because when
your abuser is lawyered up
and paying nothing toward child support,
and the girl allegedly helping him
won’t stop watching you?

that’s not “awkward.”
that’s weaponized uncertainty.

and this firm—
this multi-billion-dollar
fiduciary institution

still hasn’t told me
what the f*ck she was doing
in my life in the first place
.

that is fucking scary.
i’m alone with a fucking baby.

these are two ivy league grads,
with access to money,
my info—
my fucking life,
apparently
actively stalking me

mid-co-conspired fraud litigation

centered on them.

fucking COOL.

final legal note
for whoever’s still pretending:

you don’t get to call it “public”
when it’s directed,
repeated,
trauma-producing,
and post-termination.

you don’t get to call it “harmless
when it causes
documented psychological harm
and meets the legal standard
for surveillance,
retaliation,
and fucking stalking

under both state and federal law.

and you don’t get to say
“we didn’t know”
when i’ve been telling you
for months
in writing—
that this behavior is
obsessive,
threatening,

fucking dangerous,
ongoing,
unwanted,
and un-fucking-acceptable.

🩷 every view
🩷 is now
🩷 a live violation.

メ૦メ૦

Samantha Lee Lowe

sammie lowe is a single mom, law student, and founder of bodhi cleaning co.—an ethical, femme-forward cleaning collective rooted in fairness, ritual, and rage. born from survival and built with purpose, her work redefines what it means to clean house—physically, emotionally, and systemically. she blends practicality with a little bit of magic, runs on justice and white vinegar, and believes that women shouldn’t have to choose between making money and making meaning. this isn’t a side hustle. it’s a standard.

http://sammielowe.com/
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